Why Do We Love?

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why do we love ba? so we can have somebody to talk to?
someone who can be there pag gusto natin gumala?
a person na pwedeng manlibre satin?
taong magbibitbit ng gamit mo?

- Good Question ito...ang iba kasi they tend to love because they thought that it was really love that they feel...yung tipong lahat ipaglalaban nila at gagawan ng paraan para lang mapasaya at ma-please yung taong "mahal daw nila" What they didn't realize was that they only feel infatuation toward that person they are ready to die for...it was all different from true love! Kasi nag-ienjoy lang sila at kinikilig...initial thrill lang kung baga...kasi parang excited sila masarap kasi kausap yung girl or yung guy...tapos palagi silang ipinagbabayad sa kung anu-ano mang gustuhin nila...tapos may errand girl or boy sila...

ALALAY for short!
eh pano kung di ka nya mahal?
would you still love him/her?
would you still continue to care for thatperson?
bakit naman hinde?

- Tama nga, eh pano kung hindi talaga sila love nung kapartner nila..kasi nagbibigay lang sila ng enjoyment at thrill ta the moment...yung tipo bang adventure challenge at great sex lang... kung true love nila yung tao...kung may matagal na silang pinagsamahan at kung may offsprings na sila...malamang puwede pa ring ipagpatuloy nila ang love and care for that person,why not?

you didnt love that person para magkaroon ka ng alalay,
magkaroon ka ng instant meal dahil libre,
taong gagawa ng assignments mo or projects,
or taong mahihila mo if you want to go out...

- Right again, 'di naman tayo nagmamahal para lang magkaroon ng alalay, ng tagasolve ng problema natin or tagabili ng instant free meal at mag-asikaso ng mga assignments at projects natin or makasama natin sa boredom or sa mga lakad...yung pwedeng ipamparada sa tropa kasi bagyo ang dating?nagmamahal tayo kasi yun ang nararamdaman natin...parang ang isang tao'y kadugo natin or karugtong ng life natin kahit hindi naman natin kaanu-ano pa...kasi mula sa puso ang feelings hindi sa puson!or sa utak at kantiyaw lang...

if thats what you think about love well sorry
ang BABAW mo!

*loving a person doesn't need to have a criteria na dapat maganda o guwapo,
dapat mabait or understanding,
kasi once you fall inlove you take the risk of accepting dat person

- I know the feeling kasi i had fallen in love with a guy who's not guapo and who had a lot of negative as in NEGATIVE sides but i accepted him kasi i find him so kind and so sweet and i thought he's nice...

kahit maingay sya matulog, yung hilik ng hilik
kahit matakaw sya o sobrang fat na hindi kayo kasya pag puno ang jeep!

kahit sobrang moody nya na kulang nalang ay sapakin mo sa inis!
yung sobrang selosa/seloso na pati barkada pinagseselosan.. badtrip diba?
and yung napaka-arte OA kung baga!
o kahit ano pang things that would turn you off...

hirap tlaga magmahal trying to be PERFECT kase gusto mong magtagal
pero hindi yun ang sagot sa lahat...

ACCEPTING the real person fully

but well, he had deceived me all along...he changed a lot of partners in bed and on his gimmicks outdoors.. just as how he'd change his underwear... but i have loved him so i have endured the pain and tried so much to be blind... he only told me he loved me because he thought i'd be a perfect girl to be his wife...so he planned and intended everything to happen...without giving me the chance to enjoy my life... as in i have changed rin because unconsciously he'd driven me up to the wall...

kase if you said na mahal mo sya you dont need to find answers kung bakit mo sya mahal... kase lahat ng tao nagbabago but if you accept that person magbago man sya in the middle of your relationship hindi ka masasaktan kase you know that darating din yun.. tsaka tanggap mo sya ng buo...

- that i have changed na raw...pati kabarkada nya which was his first priority as ever, pinagseselosan ko na raw... sa kadahilanang mas inuuna pa nya ang mga ito kaysa sa mga anak nya which is perfectly reasonable naman ang side ko,di ba? Then, nagbago na raw ako?Or so he say...kaya sya ganun...he went on finding another kasi dahil sa mga ginagawa nya i have changed and he didn't expect that i would...dapat daw dati ap rin ako...after the betrayal and the pain and the sufferings and the heartaches and torturous insults and beatings...who wouldn't?Di ba kahit santo nagiging nagger kung ang partner mo ay kumpleto na sa lahat ng bad?But it doesn't necessarily mean na hindi na natin sila mahal...still we ranted and raved but that was all, we still tolerated and endured the pain and forgave and accepted them pagka bumabalik sila satin...di ba?typical doormat attitude...just like me!

mahirap gawin pero masarap subukan dahil wala ng sasaya pa if you let one person feel na MAHAL NA MAHAL mo sya without asking 4 anything in return... then you can say wow un pla ang LOVE!

- You can say that again, Right! If we've been thru all this and we have loved and endured all this and still they left us...after we have given up all we have for them..after we have clung on our hopes and faith for so long?That would be the essence of loving...because we can never say it's love if we haven't shed a tear or felt the pain or broken our hearts...Opinionko lang po ito...i didn't ask anyone to agree...but your comments are so welcome here...

Why Do We Love?

-Peaches, Blue and Bored Mood

11/04/04...Thursday, 11:45 pm

Alone -Home, PC Table