03:25am
10/23/07
Everybody has this one special person at one point in our life. Be it early on or in later years of our life. This is however, different from the special part that a true love occupies. I have this encounter…silly and childish memory from way back then…
I remembered this boy from my past when out of the blue I dreamed of him one rainy Thursday morning, this October. It dawned on me that I still hadn’t completely forgotten him, that he isn’t yet erased on my system. That the thought of him and everything about him had just been dormant for so long, laid there idle waiting to be stirred up. And I’m not quite sure what really stirred my brain up for it to resurface again…I hadn’t think of him for God knows how long (about 12 years)…And I remember him…
I remembered him, too well. How could one forget the popular person, he guy who’s most eligible and famous in our school way back then? How could one forget the most handsome boy in our school? Girls swoon by him every now and then. One of the most dashing in high school, a real cutie…How could one not notice the mayor’s son? He’s too cute, too neat and too smart to ignore. On the contrary, he’s also the most annoying person I’ve ever met. He’s got this weird habit of ticking me off. At one point, it occurs to me that he might not really be happy if he hadn’t had the chance to irritate me in a day. He’s way too ‘makulit’ at times and he’s sort of ‘suplado pa’. He’s also a rich kid and it’s a plain guess for me that it had to be the reason why he at times, ticks others off or was it just me? I’m just a plain, timid and ordinary nobody in school who seldom topped or excelled in the class.
Maybe he still knew me. Somewhere in my vague memory, he used to be my ‘ka-pair’ or was it just a member in a native dance ‘Kalapati’. A folkdance taught to us by Madam Caring in kindergarten. And he had been my lil secret crush since then. ‘Hala’, too young to adore. I could recall in Grade 1, Madam Paz Pajarillo would scold him and Raymund because they wouldn’t attend classes just to play ‘sipa’ at the back of our classroom with lots of ‘lastiko’ whom she warned to broil and let them eat…Hehehe. I used to sit beside him at one point in the second row (row 2…grade 1 blues) and he kept on annoying me until the next grading period where I’m grateful to be transferred in row 1 and he’s not my seatmate anymore. In the second grade, I don’t remember much of him except on the time when he laughed at me and teased me because I made ‘kalabasa’ dancing Oh La La onstage during one program. And, grrrr…I hate him then.
In Grade 3, I used to enjoy attending the nightly ‘Aurora’ on the next street, the San Roque Street. The assembly point was the chapel in front of their house and my classmate-friend’s aunt’s house. That’s Ayla Guinto, whom I fondly call ‘Lingkay’ my front door neighbor and ‘kababata’ which was also his distant cousin. We would go there right after supper just for the fun of it and for the foods right after (you know, the jacobina, kutipyo, kwati and boto ni Matong’). Then I would strain my neck long enough and stretch my legs craning just so I would see if he had ever gone out of their house to their gate to watch the ‘Aurora’. He then, would mock me the following morning in school for attending it. He would also tease another lowly classmate (just like me), Nimfa Legazpi for always wearing one and the same printed polo button-down several times a week, while she was cleaning our classroom CR.
In Grade 4, he had been my classmate and to no avail, again my seatmate on Madam Balon’s Math class. He would poke a pencil on my ear, annoy me by calling me names like ‘small friend’ or ‘little girl’ or ‘small frog’ just because I’m the smallest kid in our class. He used to say ‘ayayating’ to me, during lessons just so I would be annoyed to near tears already. I don’t even know whatever that means. Sometimes, his younger sister would tease him whenever they pass in front of our house on their way to the church by saying ‘sus, sinusundan mo lang yung legs ni small friend’…and what does that suppose to mean? I don’t wanna assume the impossible. His sister, I like her because she’s better than him and quite nicer than him. I got to know her in YFC gathering.
In Grade 5, lots of girls in our class and on other sections have a crush on him. I estimated maybe about 70% of the girls swoon on him and I didn’t even tried showing admirations because I’m one of them…since kindergarten. My ‘tropa’ knows about this. I’m quite shy about this, though since I’m not the ‘sikat’ one in school. Until Grade six, he’s still the inspiration I had and I’m grateful that he doesn’t even know about it. He’s fine to me until high school, when I discovered that I could be attracted to other guys, too. Just like Jaiv, Mb, Rj, Bo, Rc, Rp, Dp and Sm. A commonly simple and childish admiration for girl of our age. But he’s still there, within me. A part of me still wished for him to accept me for who I am. Hope for him to be close to me and be my friend. I still blush whenever he stood beside me, whenever he would casually speak to me. It’s so weird, but that’s how his impact on me was.
We graduated in high school and then I went to Bicol University to study political science…and him, I heard he went to MAPUA and now became a Civil Engineer as my source told to me. The last time I saw him was in 2nd year college, semestral vacation. We’re at the public cemetery, November 1 and we’re a group of classmates reunited again and having fun chatting away and filling the years that’s lost. I remembered how good he looked with his trademark ‘japorms’ – plain white Hanes shirt, light blue Levis 501 and his midnight blue Swatch topsider. My, he’s a cross between Richard Gomez and the now current (2007) model of Avon – Spirit Aqua perfume. A girl could really melt.
This made me rethink why I have never heard of him having or known anyone being his lucky girlfriend… We’ll except that he once dated Liza Labrador and also had been rumored to have a crush yata on Rosalia Rosalinas. Both girls are very attractive and cool in school. Other than that, nada. He’s too choosy. The last time I talked to him was in 2003. I’m dialing somebody’s # and I got him instead, due to misdialing. We then had quite some talk but I have never admitted what I had felt for him before and how I think of him except for the fact that he had been my crush in kindergarten. He even doubted me that I had intentionally dialed his number, he’s annoying me again just like before and the talk stretched more than an hour.
At one point in my life, I still have hopes to see him and talk to him in person whenever I had my chance in every vacation I take (which is very few) in Vinzons. Maybe because of curiosity, I wonder if he ever had a girlfriend or if he was ever married, or maybe to really confirm and sort myself out because of my confused feelings due to the resurfacing of his existence inside my mind, which I don’t even know why. Or maybe to have a closure on this saga that I consider as one of my dilemmas right now.
I may have a turbulent rollercoaster relationship right now, with the father of my three lil girls but…I don’t know why he’s continuously resurfacing in my mind from time to time when he means nothing to me anymore and the truth is I do love my live-in partner for 8 years, he’s the father of my children I love him so much, much more than I love myself. What about this person from the past? There’s a part of me who secretly hoped that he’s still eligible. Remembering him is a bittersweet memory unfolding. He had been my lost childhood love… I don’t know about him. I wouldn’t say a name but I wish he would read this, he’ll know it if he do…and one more thing, I guess he’ll know who I am, too.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Friday, October 19, 2007
10 Reasons to Hop to It
10 Reasons to Hop to It and Jump Rope
Jumping rope. Some of us haven't done it since schoolyard days.
But here are the top 10 reasons you should jump rope like you did in third grade -- besides the fact that it will make you feel like a kid again! Do it to warm up. Do it to cool down. Or make a whole workout of it. Just do it.
Jumping rope . . .
1. Burns up to 1,000 calories per hour. (Find out how many calories your other physical activities burn.)
2. Tones your entire body -- arms, legs, trunk, and back.
3. Is easy to learn (master’s degree in Pilates not required).
4. Improves your game, whether you golf, swim, ski, or play tennis.
5. Is totally cheap (ropes can start at $3.99) and portable (a 4-foot by 6-foot area is all you need).
6. Looks cool . . . check out those boxers at the gym who know what they’re doing.
7. Can be a solo or group workout.
8. Is gender neutral.
9. Is family friendly. Give your kids a rope, too!
10. Can be a blast. Make up some jump rope tricks, and have fun with it.
Jumping rope. Some of us haven't done it since schoolyard days.
But here are the top 10 reasons you should jump rope like you did in third grade -- besides the fact that it will make you feel like a kid again! Do it to warm up. Do it to cool down. Or make a whole workout of it. Just do it.
Jumping rope . . .
1. Burns up to 1,000 calories per hour. (Find out how many calories your other physical activities burn.)
2. Tones your entire body -- arms, legs, trunk, and back.
3. Is easy to learn (master’s degree in Pilates not required).
4. Improves your game, whether you golf, swim, ski, or play tennis.
5. Is totally cheap (ropes can start at $3.99) and portable (a 4-foot by 6-foot area is all you need).
6. Looks cool . . . check out those boxers at the gym who know what they’re doing.
7. Can be a solo or group workout.
8. Is gender neutral.
9. Is family friendly. Give your kids a rope, too!
10. Can be a blast. Make up some jump rope tricks, and have fun with it.
Friday, October 12, 2007
Post-It Reaction...
To Whom It May Concern,
This post is just the opinion of the viewer and it doesn't reflect the views of the persons involved herewith.(wink*)This isn't about being bias...this is just for laughs...I was just kind of witchy-feely right now to react on some of the irregularities that i've read from other blogsite(aside from the bloghost that i'm currently blogging on) a.k.a. i'm feeling kinda blograzzi right now.And...here goes,
1.If a person is in a so-called state: "numb senses" then therefore she shouldn't be feeling anything,right?And if it is said that she came to it,she should be thankful because she could therefore feel everything again...if she not,it means she is still NUMB,in other words...MANHID,okay?
2.Dense Paranoia you say?I don't really get it...since FYI i'm a slight BIPOLAR and i used to see a shrink and paranoia means you're so deep into something,you're so absorbed to it to the point of merging with it at some point that you couldn't figure out anymore which is which...And ONE thing is for sure....it ain't dense, baby.Because being dense means you're too shallow just to give too much fuss or a big deal out of it...And if a person is MABABAW,why would she deal with a thing and why would she be paranoid enough to keep thinking about it?
3.And if a person don't really care...a person won't tell the world about it that she don't care kasi WALA NGA SIYA PAKIALAM EH,di ba?So she shouldn't be telling that to the very person who initially reacted di ba...She should make it pass na lang as in DEADMA...
4.If a post is really pathetic,then why are you so interested to view it?And why are you really so into it...reading and reacting to it?If a person posted something and you don't care about it...DI WAG KANG MAGREACT!GAGAH! And if a person says something about another person whether it is good or bad,debasing,depreciating,mortifying or not...never react...UNLESS,TINATAMAAN KA...it only means if you reacted...it is then...so TRUE!(evil laugh*)
5. Never ever judge a person's richness by their house...you may be SO WRONG...THE PERSON COULD BE THAT RICH and you WOULDN'T KNOW unless you're part of their family...or their clan...
6. Pregnancy and other fetus stuff isn't something to hoax or joke about...it involves life and dignity and morality...and if it is lost....it automatically diminish a part in that person...(you know the drill...if you have sex you got pregnant...especially if you didn't use any birth control....
7. You are right, just like a crystal vase...or even a mirror..you could've fixed it back but the fissures are there...it could never be the same...KAYA NGA,why are you reacting to her blog...FYI: she just remembered her old life,old pain and everything...di ba?And isn't it that when you have been wounded...it will heal alright BUT...it'll leave you a scar...then, everytime you see the scar,you will superficially feel the pain again, and then you willl remember what caused the scar at the same time...WHen you have been hurt and you remembered it,you would eventually feel the hatred again...the feeling that you would wanna KILL,even if it's TEMPORARY only...IT'S LIKE THAT...parang CAESARIAN OPERATION...(been there,done that...hehehe!wink*wink*)
8. FYI: She never even tried winning him back in the first place.(a.k.a. SHe didn't even tried pickin' up a trash that she had thrown already...EEEEW!)YOU, i mean HE started this, and NOT her...Being delusional?I could see she's happier now than before... You’re not what you’re trying to think you are or let me correct it,if you don't mind...I think you might have misphrased it...SHE WASN'T WHAT YOU HAVE ALREADY THOUGHT SHE WAS!
P.S: …and just for laughs as well, who told her she's a princess?WELL, have you ever encountered these words: Her parents, those who loves her and then those who truly see her worth!NOW, have you got those words also?If she ain't a princess,are you one?
9. "YOU have no reputation to begin with..if you know what i mean... *grin*..." Well, what do you know...coming from a person who's so "clean?"HAve you got the right to tell that?Bakit?Are you God?Remember St. Magdalene's story...di nga sya hinusgahan ng God...YOU're just next...she's before you...don't ever say things like that...a man would never ever tell her next what he had been or how he really had been with his ex...what he had done or what he hadn't done...he could create a story so different from the truth and YOU'LL NEVER KNOW...
10. The person you're commenting might have been better or might not than who you are...ok...so this is just my opinion...i reacted on what you have written and not on you nor your personality as a whole...
So...that's it folks....thank's for reading!
This post is just the opinion of the viewer and it doesn't reflect the views of the persons involved herewith.(wink*)This isn't about being bias...this is just for laughs...I was just kind of witchy-feely right now to react on some of the irregularities that i've read from other blogsite(aside from the bloghost that i'm currently blogging on) a.k.a. i'm feeling kinda blograzzi right now.And...here goes,
1.If a person is in a so-called state: "numb senses" then therefore she shouldn't be feeling anything,right?And if it is said that she came to it,she should be thankful because she could therefore feel everything again...if she not,it means she is still NUMB,in other words...MANHID,okay?
2.Dense Paranoia you say?I don't really get it...since FYI i'm a slight BIPOLAR and i used to see a shrink and paranoia means you're so deep into something,you're so absorbed to it to the point of merging with it at some point that you couldn't figure out anymore which is which...And ONE thing is for sure....it ain't dense, baby.Because being dense means you're too shallow just to give too much fuss or a big deal out of it...And if a person is MABABAW,why would she deal with a thing and why would she be paranoid enough to keep thinking about it?
3.And if a person don't really care...a person won't tell the world about it that she don't care kasi WALA NGA SIYA PAKIALAM EH,di ba?So she shouldn't be telling that to the very person who initially reacted di ba...She should make it pass na lang as in DEADMA...
4.If a post is really pathetic,then why are you so interested to view it?And why are you really so into it...reading and reacting to it?If a person posted something and you don't care about it...DI WAG KANG MAGREACT!GAGAH! And if a person says something about another person whether it is good or bad,debasing,depreciating,mortifying or not...never react...UNLESS,TINATAMAAN KA...it only means if you reacted...it is then...so TRUE!(evil laugh*)
5. Never ever judge a person's richness by their house...you may be SO WRONG...THE PERSON COULD BE THAT RICH and you WOULDN'T KNOW unless you're part of their family...or their clan...
6. Pregnancy and other fetus stuff isn't something to hoax or joke about...it involves life and dignity and morality...and if it is lost....it automatically diminish a part in that person...(you know the drill...if you have sex you got pregnant...especially if you didn't use any birth control....
7. You are right, just like a crystal vase...or even a mirror..you could've fixed it back but the fissures are there...it could never be the same...KAYA NGA,why are you reacting to her blog...FYI: she just remembered her old life,old pain and everything...di ba?And isn't it that when you have been wounded...it will heal alright BUT...it'll leave you a scar...then, everytime you see the scar,you will superficially feel the pain again, and then you willl remember what caused the scar at the same time...WHen you have been hurt and you remembered it,you would eventually feel the hatred again...the feeling that you would wanna KILL,even if it's TEMPORARY only...IT'S LIKE THAT...parang CAESARIAN OPERATION...(been there,done that...hehehe!wink*wink*)
8. FYI: She never even tried winning him back in the first place.(a.k.a. SHe didn't even tried pickin' up a trash that she had thrown already...EEEEW!)YOU, i mean HE started this, and NOT her...Being delusional?I could see she's happier now than before... You’re not what you’re trying to think you are or let me correct it,if you don't mind...I think you might have misphrased it...SHE WASN'T WHAT YOU HAVE ALREADY THOUGHT SHE WAS!
P.S: …and just for laughs as well, who told her she's a princess?WELL, have you ever encountered these words: Her parents, those who loves her and then those who truly see her worth!NOW, have you got those words also?If she ain't a princess,are you one?
9. "YOU have no reputation to begin with..if you know what i mean... *grin*..." Well, what do you know...coming from a person who's so "clean?"HAve you got the right to tell that?Bakit?Are you God?Remember St. Magdalene's story...di nga sya hinusgahan ng God...YOU're just next...she's before you...don't ever say things like that...a man would never ever tell her next what he had been or how he really had been with his ex...what he had done or what he hadn't done...he could create a story so different from the truth and YOU'LL NEVER KNOW...
10. The person you're commenting might have been better or might not than who you are...ok...so this is just my opinion...i reacted on what you have written and not on you nor your personality as a whole...
So...that's it folks....thank's for reading!
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
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Wednesday, May 10, 2006
Heavenly Attitude From Shan...
This would give you guides on how to control your emotions towards your better-half, friends, officemates and all the people around you, especially your "boss".
The rules of practicing "ugaling langit, ugaling kaaya-aya"
#1 Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya,tumahimik ka na lang muna.
#2 Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa. Pag hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol, titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag- away sa inyo.
#3 Ang taong galit, 'bingi.' If someone is angry,wala raw pinakikinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.
#4 Ang taong galit, 'abnoy.' Ayon sa pastor,Biblical daw ito? because the Lord said when Hewas crucified, "Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa." Modern term forthese kinds of people are abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.You should also know and realize that the persons who make your day bad are jewels, because you need them for you to mature. Hangga't andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa. God will not take away those people; it's for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You'll know na mature ka na pag dumating 'yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them.
#5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself na, because of this person, "I will grow mature,"and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.
Something i learned from a friend...
Five (5) lessons to make you think about the way we treat people.1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.During my second month of college, our professorgave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious studentand had breezed through the questions until I readthe last one:"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen thecleaning woman several times. She was tall,dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?I handed in my paper, leaving the last questionblank. Just before class ended, one student asked ifthe last question would count toward our quiz grade."Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers,you will meet many people. All are significant. Theydeserve your attention and care, even if all you dois smile and say "hello."I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned hername was Dorothy. 2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the RainOne night, at 11:30 p.m., an elderly African-Americanwoman was standing on the side of an Alabama highwaytrying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car hadbroken down and she desperately needed a ride.Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.A young white man stopped to help her, generallyunheard of in those conflict-filled 60s.. The mantook her to safety, helped her get assistance andput her into a taxicab.She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down hisaddress and thanked him. Seven days went by and aknock came on the man's door. To his surprise, agiant console color TV was delivered to his home. Aspecial note was attached..It read:"Thank you so much for assisting me on the highwaythe other night. The rain drenched not only myclothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.Because of you, I was able to make it to my dyinghusband's bedside just before he passed away... Godbless you for helping me and unselfishly servingothers."Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole. 3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve.In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop andsat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him."How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked."Fifty cents," replied the waitress.The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket andstudied the coins in it."Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired.By now more people were waiting for a table and thewaitress was growing impatient."Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied.The little boy again counted his coins."I'll have the plain ice cream," he said.The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill onthe table and walked away. The boy finished the icecream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitresscame back, she began to cry as she wiped down thetable. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,were two nickels and five pennies..You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he hadto have enough left to leave her a tip.4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on aroadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see ifanyone would remove the huge rock. Some of theking's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came byand simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed theKing for not keeping the roads clear, but none didanything about getting the stone out of the way.Then a peasant came along carrying a load ofvegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, thepeasant laid down his burden and tried to move thestone to the s ide of the road. After much pushingand straining, he finally succeeded. After thepeasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticeda purse lying in the road where the boulder hadbeen. The purse contained many gold coins and a notefrom the King indicating that the gold was for theperson who removed the boulder from the roadway. Thepeasant learned what many of us never understand!Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at ahospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz whowas suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her onlychance of recovery appeared to be a bloodtransfusion from her 5-year old brother, who hadmiraculously survived the same disease and haddeveloped the antibodies needed to combat theillness. The doctor explained the situation to herlittle brother, and asked the little boy if he wouldbe willing to give his blood to his sister.I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking adeep breath and saying, "Yes I'll do it if it willsave her." As the transfusion progressed, he lay inbed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did,seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then hisface grew pale and his smile faded.He looked up at the doctor and asked with atrembling voice, "Will I start to die right away".Being young, the little boy had misunderstood thedoctor; he thought he was going to have to give hissister all of his blood in order to save her. "Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like you do when nobody's watching."
31 Ways To Make A Girl Smile!
This, I found at bhabes' blog...It caught my attention...Well, i could relate and i'll highlight it for you!Happy Reading!
1. Tell her she is beautiful
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its justfor a second.
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her :)
6. don't go hang out with you ex when shes notwith you, you might not relize how badly it hurtsher.
7. If youre talking to another girl, when you'redone talking, walk over and hug her and kissher....let her know she's yours and they aren't.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"
9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as yourgirlfriend or wife(if so).
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up (she loves it)
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and shedoesn't like it
13. Make her laugh
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then TELL HER
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: astuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes tosleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one ofhis t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed) orsweatshirts sprayed with his cologne!! and flowersor something occasionally.
18. Treat her the same around your friends as youdo when you're alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
22.Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something,even if its simple and inexpensive, it came fromYOU. it means all the world to HER.
25. when she gives you a present on yourbirthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it andtell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make herhappy.)
26. Always call her when you say you will, it maynot seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes herthink you don't care so call even if you can onlytalk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have tohave hour long conversations every night but itsnice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants
28. Recognize the small things . . . they usuallymean the most.
29.dont hug her friends or your friends that aregirls nor enjoy hanging out with them than her because she'll feel left out.
30.hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girl friend all thetime
31.If u care about her...SHOW her!
1. Tell her she is beautiful
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its justfor a second.
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her :)
6. don't go hang out with you ex when shes notwith you, you might not relize how badly it hurtsher.
7. If youre talking to another girl, when you'redone talking, walk over and hug her and kissher....let her know she's yours and they aren't.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"
9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as yourgirlfriend or wife(if so).
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up (she loves it)
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and shedoesn't like it
13. Make her laugh
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then TELL HER
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: astuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes tosleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one ofhis t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed) orsweatshirts sprayed with his cologne!! and flowersor something occasionally.
18. Treat her the same around your friends as youdo when you're alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
22.Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something,even if its simple and inexpensive, it came fromYOU. it means all the world to HER.
25. when she gives you a present on yourbirthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it andtell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make herhappy.)
26. Always call her when you say you will, it maynot seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes herthink you don't care so call even if you can onlytalk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have tohave hour long conversations every night but itsnice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants
28. Recognize the small things . . . they usuallymean the most.
29.dont hug her friends or your friends that aregirls nor enjoy hanging out with them than her because she'll feel left out.
30.hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girl friend all thetime
31.If u care about her...SHOW her!
Friday, May 05, 2006
The Five's and the Three's Test...
Your Values Profile |
Loyalty: You value loyalty a fair amount. You're loyal to your friends... to a point. But if they cross you, you will reconsider your loyalties. Staying true to others is important to you, but you also stay true to yourself. Honesty: You value honesty a fair amount. You're honest when you can be, but you aren't a stickler for it. If a little white lie will make a situation more comfortable, you'll go for it. In the end, you mostly care about "situational integrity." Generosity: You value generosity a fair amount. You are all about giving, as long as there's some give and take. Supportive and kind, you don't mind helping out a friend in need. But you know when you've given too much. You have no problem saying "no"! Humility: You value humility highly. You have the self-confidence to be happy with who you are. And you don't need to seek praise to make yourself feel better. You're very modest, and you're keep the drama factor low. Tolerance: You value tolerance highly. Not only do you enjoy the company of those very different from you... You do all that you can to seek it out interesting and unique friends. You think there are many truths in life, and you're open to many of them. |
Your Five Factor Personality Profile |
Extroversion: You have high extroversion. You are outgoing and engaging, with both strangers and friends. You truly enjoy being with people and bring energy into any situation. Enthusiastic and fun, you're the first to say "let's go!" Conscientiousness: You have high conscientiousness. Intelligent and reliable, you tend to succeed in life. Most things in your life are organized and planned well. But you borderline on being a total perfectionist. Agreeableness: You have high agreeableness. You are easy to get along with, and you value harmony highly. Helpful and generous, you are willing to compromise with almost anyone. You give people the benefit of the doubt and don't mind giving someone a second chance. Neuroticism: You have medium neuroticism. You're generally cool and collected, but sometimes you do panic. Little worries or problems can consume you, draining your energy. Your life is pretty smooth, but there's a few emotional bumps you'd like to get rid of. Openness to experience: Your openness to new experiences is medium. You are generally broad minded when it come to new things. But if something crosses a moral line, there's no way you'll approve of it. You are suspicious of anything too wacky, though you do still consider creativity a virtue. |
Your Five Variable Love Profile |
Propensity for Monogamy: Your propensity for monogamy is medium. In general, you prefer to have only one love interest. But it's hard for you to stay devoted for too long! There's too much eye candy to keep you from wandering. Experience Level: Your experience level is high. You've loved, lost, and loved again. You have had a wide range of love experiences. And when the real thing comes along, you know it! Dominance: Your dominance is low. This doesn't mean you're a doormat, just balanced. You know a relationship is not about getting your way. And you love to give your sweetie a lot of freedom. Cynicism: Your cynicism is low. You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance. No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter. You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate. And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon. Independence: Your independence is medium. In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time." You usually find it easy to be part of a couple. But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered. |
You Are Balanced - Believer - Empowered |
You feel your life is controlled both externally and internally. You have a good sense of what you can control and what you should let go. Depending on the situation, you sometimes try to exert more control. Other times, you accept things for what they are and go with the flow. You are a true believer in luck, fate, and karma. You believe that life is a game of chance - not a game of skill. You either consider yourself very unlucky or very lucky. No matter what, you don't feel like you can change the hand you were dealt. You have a good deal of power, but you also know the pecking order. You realize that working the system does get you further. You know who to defer to and who to control. When it comes to the game of life, you play things flawlessly. |
Your Personality Is |
You are both grounded and flexible. You adapt well to new situations. You are playful and free spirited - but you are also dependable and never flaky. You don't do well in conservative, stuffy situations. It's probably very hard for you to keep a normal job or stay in school. You are always up for fun and adventure. Most people are too boring for you. You take risks and bend the rules. And if things don't work out, you chock it up to life experience. In love, you tend to take things quickly - but you have a huge problem with commitment. At work, you need to make your own rules. You're best suited to be an entrepreneur. With others, you are animated and physical. You prefer doing something with friends to just hanging out. As far as your looks go, you tend to be buff and in good shape. Your spend more time on your body than your clothes. On weekends, you need to keep active. From cooking up a storm to running a 5K, you wear yourself out. |
Your Personality Profile |
You are dependable, popular, and observant. Deep and thoughtful, you are prone to moodiness. In fact, your emotions tend to influence everything you do. You are unique, creative, and expressive. You don't mind waving your freak flag every once and a while. And lucky for you, most people find your weird ways charming! |
My Clothes Results(It's Fun Doin' This!)
You Are Dark Wash Jeans | ||||
You prefer to try out new looks, especially ones that are all your own. You like wearing jeans, as long as you make them part of your style. |
The PJ's You Are Most Like: No PJ's |
You're a bit of a hedonist - opting for comfort over everything else You have an understated, easy sexyness that men love You'll risk that for the feeling of sheets against your bare skin! |
What Kind of PJ's Are You?
Your Summery Dress Is |
Your Miniskirt Is |
Your Little Black Dress Is |
Your Cute Sweater Is |
Your Juicy Couture Look Is |
Your Wedding Gown Is |
Your Jessica Simpson Look Is |
Your Sexy Christmas Look Is |
Your BCBG Look Is |
Your Prom / Homecoming Look Is |
Your Sexy Dress Should Be |
Your Head Turning Halloween Costume Is |
Your Funny Costume Is |
Your Sexy Halloween Costume Is |
Your Winter Look is Casual |
You go for warmth and comfort, yet still manage to look great |
What Your White Outfit Means |
You're a natural beauty - and you never let your fashion steal the show. You have a quiet confidence that you'll look great in almost anything. While you may feel understated, men are attracted to your mystery. Designer match: Gucci Signature accessory: A cashmere scarf |
Your Fashion Style is Classic |
You like what's stood the test of time... Simple, well styled clothes that don't scream trendy You stay updated and modern, but your clothes stay in style for a while You wouldn't be caught in animal prints, fake fur, or super bright colors |
Tuesday, May 02, 2006
My Shoes Results
Your Couture Shoes Are |
Your Retro Shoes Are |
Your Boho Shoes Are |
Your Sexy Red Shoes Are |
Your Glam Shoes Are |
Your Funky Boots Are |
Your Sexy Sandals Are |
Your Sexy Boots Are |
Your Ugg Look Is |
i Am These...A Bit Of Every Last Stuffs
Slow and Steady |
Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It'd really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment. They expect you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then usually decide against it. |
How Do People See You?
You Have A Type A- Personality |
You are one of the most balanced people around Motivated and focused, you are good at getting what you want You rule at success, but success doesn't rule you. When it's playtime, you really know how to kick back Whether it's hanging out with friends or doing something you love! You live life to the fullest - encorporating the best of both worlds |
You Are More Mild Than Wild |
You're confident, and you really aren't concerned with how "hot" you are. Other people's ideas of what's sexy don't concern you. And this is exactly what makes you attractive. |
Your Power Level is: 59% |
There's a good chance you feel pretty powerful, and with good reason, you're already fairly successful. Keep developing your goals and skills, and you'll be surprised by what you can really achieve. |
You Are 24% Selfish |
In general, you are a very giving person who treats others very well. But at times, you insist on getting your way - when it matters most to you. |
People Envy Your Compassion |
You have a kind heart and an unusual empathy for all living creatures. You tend to absorb others' happiness and pain. People envy your compassion, and more importantly, the connections it helps you build. And compassionate as you are, you feel for them. |
You Are 76% Happy |
You are a very happy person. Generally, you feel content and that all is right with the world. Occasionally, you have a down day - but you have the ability to pick yourself right back up. |
You Are 52% Open Minded |
You are a very open minded person, but you're also well grounded. Tolerant and flexible, you appreciate most lifestyles and viewpoints. But you also know where you stand firm, and you can draw that line. You're open to considering every possibility - but in the end, you stand true to yourself. |
Your Love Life Secrets Are |
Looking back on your life, you will have a few true loves. You're a little scarred from your past relationships, but who isn't? You expect a lot from your lover - you want the full package. You tend to be very picky. In fights, you love to debate and defend yourself. You logic prevails - or at least you'd like to think so. Getting over a break-up doesn't take long. Easy come, easy go. |
Who Should Paint You: M.C. Escher |
Open and raw, you would let your true self show for your portrait. And even if your painting turned out a bit dark, it would be honest. |
You Are a Prophet Soul |
You are a gentle soul, with good intentions toward everyone. Selfless and kind, you have great faith in people. Sometimes this faith can lead to disappoinment in the long run. No matter what, you deal with everything in a calm and balanced way. You are a good interpreter, very sensitive, intuitive, caring, and gentle. Concerned about the world, you are good at predicting people's feelings. A seeker of wisdom, you are a life long learner looking for purpose and meaning. You are a great thinker and communicator, but not necessarily a doer. Souls you are most compatible with: Bright Star Soul and Dreaming Soul |
What Your Face Says |
At first glance, people see you as down to earth and reliable. Overall, your true self is reserved and logical. With friends, you seem logical, detached, and a bit manipulative. In love, you seem mysterious and interesting. In stressful situations, you seem selfish and moody. |
You Have a Phlegmatic Temperament |
Mild mannered and laid back, you take life at a slow pace. You are very consistent - both in emotions and actions. You tend to absorb set backs easily. You are cool and collected. It is difficult to offend you. You can remain composed and unemotional. You are a great friend and lover. You don't demand much of others. While you are quiet, you have a subtle wit that your friends know well. At your worst, you are lazy and unwilling to work at anything. You often get stuck in a rut, without aspirations or dreams. You can get too dependent on others, setting yourself up for abandonment. |
You Are A Friendly Ex |
You and your ex are just friends - great friends really. (At least that's what you keep telling yourself!) While civility is a good thing, make sure you're not secretly wanting more... |
Your Heart Is Blue |
Love is a doing word for you. You know it's love when you treat each other well. You are a giving lover, but you don't give too much. You expect something in return. Your flirting style: Friendly Your lucky first date: Lunch at an outdoor cafe Your dream lover: Is both generous and selfish What you bring to relationships: Loyalty |
You Are Not Scary |
Everyone loves you. Isn't that sweet? |
What Your Sleeping Position Says |
You have a passion for everything - including sleeping. Outgoing and brash, you tend to still shock those who know you well. You tend to be selfish. You are the most likely type to hog the covers. You gravitate toward comfort and don't like extreme situations. |
You Are 60% Boyish and 40% Girlish |
You are pretty evenly split down the middle - a total eunuch. Okay, kidding about the eunuch part. But you do get along with both sexes. You reject traditional gender roles. However, you don't actively fight them. You're just you. You don't try to be what people expect you to be. |
Your Brain's Pattern |
You have a dreamy mind, full of fancy and fantasy. You have the ability to stay forever entertained with your thoughts. People may say you're hard to read, but that's because you're so internally focused. But when you do share what you're thinking, people are impressed with your imagination. |
You Are 27 Years Old |
Under 12: You are a kid at heart. You still have an optimistic life view - and you look at the world with awe. 13-19: You are a teenager at heart. You question authority and are still trying to find your place in this world. 20-29: You are a twentysomething at heart. You feel excited about what's to come... love, work, and new experiences. 30-39: You are a thirtysomething at heart. You've had a taste of success and true love, but you want more! 40+: You are a mature adult. You've been through most of the ups and downs of life already. Now you get to sit back and relax. |
The Keys to Your Heart |
You are attracted to obedience and warmth. In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring. You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please. Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred. In this moment, you think of love as commitment. Love only works when both people are totally devoted. |
Your Daddy Is Arnold Schwarzenegger |
What You Call Him: Dada Why You Love Him: He takes you to church |
You Are Very Honest |
You tell it like it is, no matter what. Even if the truth hurts, you'll dish it out. And while some may get hurt by your honesty... At least everyone knows where you stand! |
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