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Tuesday, May 02, 2006

My Weirdness!Hahaha!




You Are 70% Weird



You're so weird, you think you're *totally* normal. Right?

But you wig out even the biggest of circus freaks!

How Weird Are You?




You Are 64% Abnormal



You are at high risk for being a psychopath. It is very likely that you have no soul.



You are at high risk for having a borderline personality. It is very likely that you are a chaotic mess.



You are at medium risk for having a narcissistic personality. It is somewhat likely that you are in love with your own reflection.



You are at medium risk for having a social phobia. It is somewhat likely that you feel most comfortable in your mom's basement.



You are at medium risk for obsessive compulsive disorder. It is somewhat likely that you are addicted to hand sanitizer.























Your Extroversion Profile:


Friendliness: High
Cheerfulness: Medium
Sociability: Medium
Assertiveness: Low
Activity Level: Very Low
Excitement Seeking: Very Low






You Have Low Self Esteem 60% of the Time



While you sometimes feel good about yourself, you tend to struggle a little with self esteem issues.

It's not about changing who you are, it's about accepting your faults. You just need to be less critical and demanding of yourself!






You Are an Excellent Cook



You're a top cook, but you weren't born that way. It's taken a lot of practice, a lot of experimenting, and a lot of learning.

It's likely that you have what it takes to be a top chef, should you have the desire...






Your Quirk Factor: 60%



You're a pretty quirky person, but you're just normal enough to hide it.

Congratulations - you've fooled other people into thinking you're just like them!






You Should Be a Romance Novelist



You see the world as it should be, and this goes double for all matters of the heart.

You can find the romance in any situation, and you would make a talented romance story writer...

And while you may be a traditional romantic, you're just as likely to be drawn to quirky or dark love stories.

As long as it deals with infatuation, heartbreak, and soulmates - you could write it.






You Should Be a Painter



You have the vision, patience, and skill to bring your unique visions to canvas.

And you're even tempered enough not to cut your ear off in the process!

What Sort of Artist Should You Be?




Your Luck Quotient: 61%



You have a high luck quotient.

More often than not, you've felt very lucky in your life.

You may be randomly lucky, but it's probably more than that.

Optimistic and open minded, you take advantage of all the luck that comes your way.






You Are 50% Evil



You are evil, but you haven't yet mastered the dark side.

Fear not though - you are on your way to world domination.






You Are Marge Simpson



You're a devoted family member who loves unconditionally.



Sometimes, though, you dream about living a wild secret life!



You will be remembered for: your good cooking and evading the police



Your life philosophy: "You should listen to your heart, and not the voices in your head."






You Are 54% Addicted to Love



Might as well face it, you're addicted to love.

You've been a fool for love many times - but are you the wiser for it?

Your needs should come first, both in and out of relationships.

Because you're the only one who can look out for yourself!






You Are The Hanging Man



You represent the seeking of enlightenment and spiritual clarity.

You tend to confuse others, but your oddities seem deeply satisfying.

Self sacrifice is easy for you, especially if it makes you a better person in the end.

You are the type of person who is very in touch with your soul and inner spirit.



Your fortune:



Right now is a good time for reflection and meditation.

You should stop resisting the problems in your life, and let yourself be vulnerable to them.

You may need to sacrifice something important to you to move ahead in your life.

Accept your destiny with courage, and learn to let go of what you think you need.





You are a Believer



You believe in God and your chosen religion.

Whether you're Christian, Muslim, Jewish, or Hindu..

Your convictions are strong and unwavering.

You think your religion is the one true way, for everyone.



Your EQ is
120

50 or less: Thanks for answering honestly. Now get yourself a shrink, quick!
51-70: When it comes to understanding human emotions, you'd have better luck understanding Chinese.
71-90: You've got more emotional intelligence than the average frat boy. Barely.
91-110: You're average. It's easy to predict how you'll react to things. But anyone could have guessed that.
111-130: You usually have it going on emotionally, but roadblocks tend to land you on your butt.
131-150: You are remarkable when it comes to relating with others. Only the biggest losers get under your skin.
150+: Two possibilities - you've either out "Dr. Phil-ed" Dr. Phil... or you're a dirty liar.







Your Dominant Intelligence is Linguistic Intelligence



You are excellent with words and language. You explain yourself well.
An elegant speaker, you can converse well with anyone on the fly.
You are also good at remembering information and convicing someone of your point of view.
A master of creative phrasing and unique words, you enjoy expanding your vocabulary.

You would make a fantastic poet, journalist, writer, teacher, lawyer, politician, or translator.








How Your Attitude Ranks


Your Attitude is Better than 55% of the Population


If you scored...

80-100: You've got a winner attitude. You're always optimistic and cheery. Your personality will get you far in life.

60-79: You have a good attitude. While a realist, you do see the positive side of most things. People love to be around you.

40 - 59: You have a positive attitude... somtimes. You prefer to see the world through clear glasses, not rose colored ones.

20 - 39: You have an average attitude. You take the good and bad in life as they come. Though sometimes you could use a little more good.

0-19: You have a negative attitude. You tend to see the dark side of every situation. Free ice cream? No thanks, it will just make you fat!





You are 29% Sketchy











You Are A Realistic Romantic


You are more romantic than 70% of the population.






It's easy for you to get swept away by romance...
But you've done a pretty good job keeping perspective.
You're still taken in by love poems and sunsets
You just don't fall for every dreamy pick up line!








Your Brain is 60.00% Female, 40.00% Male



Your brain is a healthy mix of male and female

You are both sensitive and savvy

Rational and reasonable, you tend to keep level headed

But you also tend to wear your heart on your sleeve








You Have Good Karma







In general, you like to do the right thing when it comes to others.

Your caring personality really shines through.

Sure, you have your moments of weakness - and occasionally act out.

But, all in all, you're karma is good... even with those few dark spots.








You Are Bold And Brave









But daring? Not usually?

You tend to like to make calculated risks.

So while you may not be base jumping any time soon...

You are up for whatever's new and (a little) exciting!








You Are A Good Friend









You're always willing to listen

Or lend a shoulder to cry on

You're there through thick and thin

Many people consider you their "best friend"!





How Boyish Or Girlish Am I?




You Are 50% Boyish and 50% Girlish


You are pretty evenly split down the middle - a total eunuch.

Okay, kidding about the eunuch part. But you do get along with both sexes.

You reject traditional gender roles. However, you don't actively fight them.

You're just you. You don't try to be what people expect you to be.

My Underwear Results




You Are Designer Panties



You demand the best, from head to toe.

And your panties have to be pure couture, for your own luxury.

Men feel like you're a worthy challenge, though you can be difficult to catch.

You exude a polished, sexy vibe that tends to attract confident men.






Your Lucky Underwear is Blue



You are caring and extroverted. You've made relationships your number one focus, and your lucky blue underwear can bring some balance to them.

You thrive in one-on-one situations. You are a good listener and a natural born therapist.



Sometimes you let the concerns of others become too important in your life, leading to stress and worry.

If you want more balance, put on your blue underpants. They'll help you take care of yourself first.






What Your Underwear Says About You



You've washed your underwear so many times, you don't know what color it used to be.



You're sexy, in that pinup girl, tease sort of way.

The Underwear Oracle




You Are a Retro Bikini!



You prefer a bikini that's flirty and feminine, not flashy.

You look sweet and sexy - a rarity on the beach these days!





You Are a Lace Bra!



Dreamy, romantic, and ultra-feminine

You're a womanly woman who makes guys feel like men

Your perfect guy is strong, determined, and handsome

With a softer side that only you can draw out





Your Bra Is


Smooth Satin Lace Trim Bra







You are


Lace Boyleg Panties



My Multiple Intelligence Report (My Result)

Your Multiple Intelligence Report

Sophia, you have your own distinct brand of smart. As a result, you're likely more geared toward some types of intelligence than others. The important thing to remember is that the scores you receive below are an indication of where you stand today. Everyone possesses the capacity to improve and change. To help you do just that, Tickle's experts have provided a series of action steps in each section below to help you fulfill your potential. But first, let's examine what you're best at.

Your greatest strength is Visual/Spatial Intelligence. You scored a 9 out of 10. This means that you scored above 90% of the others who took this test.

What is visual/spatial intelligence?

People with visual/spatial intelligence have the interesting ability of being able to form high-quality mental images and even manipulate those pictures to form new things. Visual/spatial abilities can include being able to visualize accurate representations of existing objects and having the skill to imagine detailed original designs or scenes. In the career world, this can make visual/spatial types great at everything from mechanical engineering to interior design.

People with this intelligence typically have a high level of attention to detail and are well in touch with their surroundings. As a result, visually/spatially intelligent people can make great hunters because they tend to notice even small changes in their physical environment — a key when tracking prey. They're also the kinds of individuals you'd want in control of the map on a road trip. Visual/spatial intelligence can make people great with directions.

In addition, people with strong visual/spatial intelligence typically love aesthetics. They can usually find beauty in both manmade and natural things. Appreciating a sunset, noticing how patterns and colors fit together to make a great outfit, and having at least a passing knowledge of architecture and design are all different ways that their love of beauty can manifest.

People who use this type of intelligence tend to think in pictures rather than numbers or words. As a result, those who score relatively high on visual/spatial intelligence are better at learning concepts when seeing charts, pictures, or diagrams rather than hearing a lecture. Overall, using this type of intelligence can enrich your life because it requires a vivid imagination. Indeed, by forming creative mental images and really seeing the things around you, you can make the world a more wondrous place.

Take Action

The activities below are designed to help you to exercise your spatial skills and further advance your imagination and visual abilities. Each task focuses on a different aspect of visual/spatial intelligence. Begin with something basic. Then challenge yourself to expand your talents even more.

Start small

  • Try rearranging the furniture in one room of your house. Begin by visualizing how the new layout will look, draw it, and then move things around to see how you like the new look.
  • When walking or driving to a familiar destination, take a new route to familiarize yourself with different paths and how they fit together.
  • Listen to classical music; it's known to increase visual/spatial skills.

Challenge yourself

  • Next time you need to learn or teach a new concept, try creating a graph or a diagram to convey the information.
  • Check out your local college or community center to sign up for a class in photography, sculpting, or drawing to explore your visual creativity.
  • Either take an orienteering class or learn to master using a compass and your surroundings so that you can hike on your own. It will help you become more attuned to your surroundings.

Your Complete Intelligence Profile

Visual/spatial intelligence
(aka "picture smarts") (9)

This trait involves accurately forming mental pictures and being able to interpret the physical world.

Personal intelligence
(aka "self smarts") (6)

This means being in tune with your inner self through exploring your feelings, values, and ideas.

Linguistic intelligence
(aka "word smarts) (6)

This means clearly expressing thoughts and feelings in written or oral form.

Logical/mathematical intelligence
(aka "reasoning/numbers smarts") (5)

This trait involves higher-order thinking through abstract and numerical reasoning.

Physical intelligence
(aka "body smarts) (4)

This trait involves the ability to control and direct body movements for achievement or expression.

Social intelligence
(aka "people smarts") (3)

This trait centers on successfully decoding interpersonal cues to respond to others with empathy.

Most everyone has at least some degree of each of these six types of intelligence. Yet it's also true that almost no one uses any one kind of intelligence to its fullest potential. Most of us take advantage of certain aspects of an intelligence we have but don't explore its other benefits. As you read the sections below, notice the ways you're actively using your intelligences today and the ways you can expand them in the future. The Take Action sections will help you get started.

Before looking at the details of your remaining intelligences, you might want to know how we generated this summary of your skills.

While you were answering the test questions, we measured your intelligence level in six distinct areas: linguistic, logical/mathematical, personal, physical, social, and visual/spatial.

As you look at your multiple intelligences profile, you may notice that you can receive the same score on more than one of your intelligences. Don't worry, that's very common. If some of the intelligences share the same score, it simply means that you're equally good at all of those skills.

Here's how your intelligences profile is ranked. First, we calculated your overall score for each intelligence. The higher the score, the higher it is ranked in your intelligences profile. If you receive the same score on more than one type of intelligence, our researchers then looked at how difficult it is for people to get high scores on those different areas. They then ranked those competing intelligences in order of difficulty.

Personal Intelligence

You scored a 6 out of 10 on Personal Intelligence. This means that you scored above 60% of the others who took this test.

What is personal intelligence?

People with a high level of personal intelligence aren't afraid to ask themselves life's big questions: "Why am I here?" or "What's the meaning of life?" These issues are everyday fare for people using their personal intelligence. By being willing to explore the unknown, personally intelligent people can seem positively fearless to those who'd rather focus on simpler, more concrete issues. It's true: Asking deep questions that may have no definitive answers can be scary at times. However, by delving into these existential places, personally intelligent types can become very in tune with their feelings, values, and ideals. It's a kind of self-knowledge that people with less of this intelligence rarely experience.

After all, getting to know who you are and understanding your place in this world should not be things left only to philosophers, psychologists, and religious scholars. Developing a solid sense of yourself can be crucial to nurturing self-esteem and a positive self-image. People who score high on personal intelligence are typically comfortable expressing the full spectrum of their emotions. They are also generally in tune with their conscious and unconscious feelings. Perhaps most importantly, people with a high degree of this intelligence appear not just to recognize their own emotions, but the underlying causes for them, as well. This can make personally intelligent people very self-reliant and able to improve their own lives.

People who are personally intelligent seem to realize that it's not so important what the answers to life's big questions are, but that the questions are being asked. By forcing yourself to face who you are, you can begin to accept who you are, as well. Possessing inner peace can make what others think of you matter much less. In activating personal intelligence to its fullest, you can effectively enrich your life. This is true because in many ways, this kind of intelligence represents an integration of your mind and heart.

Take Action

Personal intelligence is never completely achieved. In fact, this particular type of intelligence needs to be practiced on a consistent basis in order to be maintained. Based on your score, it's apparent that you use this type of intelligence to some extent already. With this in mind, below our research team has offered a variety of exercises to help you expand your self-knowledge. Try them out to see which ones most positively enhance your personal intelligence.

Start small

  • Get to know yourself by writing your own biography. If you're having a hard time getting the hang of writing about yourself, read a biography of someone you admire first. Once properly inspired, the writing may more easily.
  • Practice being alone with your thoughts. Learn to enjoy silence. Many people avoid dealing with themselves by always having some type of distraction around them — TV, music, other people. Try spending 20 to 30 minutes of quiet time to yourself each day.
  • Do something that makes you happy at least once a day. Pet your cat. Take a run. Play with a niece or nephew. Whatever you choose to do, make sure that you're giving yourself time to enjoy your life and the things and people around you.

Challenge yourself

  • Forgive someone unconditionally for what they have done to you. Understand that your negative feelings are only weighing you down. Better yet, forgive yourself for something that you've done and that you truly regret. You'll be surprised the weight that can be lifted from you when you practice forgiveness.
  • Is there something you always wanted to do but have always been afraid to try — like rock climbing, taking a dance class, or even going on a safari? Remember that where there's a will, there's a way. Take a little time to do some research and bolster your self-confidence. Once you start charting out a concrete plan you may find that the goal isn't so unreachable after all.
  • Find ways to strengthen your spirit. Whether it's through practicing your religion or some type of philosophy, find ways to feel connected with yourself and with nature. Some people feel at peace with themselves in a house of worship, such as a church, mosque, temple, or synagogue. Others go to a park or garden, or simply take a walk to seek spiritual refuge. Wherever you go, you can strengthen your personal intelligence by taking time to reflect and be thankful.

Linguistic Intelligence

You scored a 6 out of 10 on Linguistic Intelligence. This means that you scored above 60% of the others who took this test.

What is linguistic intelligence?

Generally, people with a high degree of linguistic intelligence have a greater gift for expressing themselves than most other people do. In fact, linguistically intelligent people often become known as real wordsmiths among their friends and colleagues. Whether their skills center on having the gift of gab or the ability to turn an elegant phrase, linguistically intelligent types know how to get a point across with precision and flair. Poets, thespians, writers, and public speakers are among the people who rely heavily on linguistic intelligence.

At times, having this type of intelligence can make for very persuasive communication. By choosing the right words at the right time, linguistic intelligence can help people clearly express their ideas, thoughts, and feelings to others. This can be a crucial skill in both professional and personal life. Linguistically talented people are often able to tailor their communication to a variety of audiences. Many also seem to know when subtlety is more appropriate than being overly direct.

Think about the people in your life who can tell a great story or who have others in stitches when telling a joke. That's linguistic intelligence, too. It's a skill that can make people a real hit in social situations. By crafting vivid descriptions and emotional language, people with linguistic intelligence can keep an audience riveted.

People who score relatively high on this intelligence tend to think in words instead of pictures. As a result, when it comes to learning something, they're better able to understand verbal explanations than charts or drawings. Studying the origins of words, slang, and metaphors can also be intriguing to those who score high on this intelligence. As for leisure time, when linguistic types are not telling stories themselves, they might be found curled up with a good book. Typically lovers of the written word, linguistically intelligent people can be voracious readers.

Take Action

You've already got a better handle on this type of intelligence than most people do, but there's always room for improvement. The action points below can help you to make your written and verbal communication skills more varied, specific, and engaging. Start small and work up.

Start small

  • Dust off your dictionary, and use it to learn five new words a week. You'd be amazed at how many words you've probably never even seen. For an added challenge, consider buying a book on verbal expressions like metaphors or quotations to familiarize yourself with new expressions. Once you've got them down, try working them into conversations.
  • If you remember your dreams, keep a dream journal next to your bed, and each morning take a few minutes to capture them as vividly as possible on paper.
  • If you don't already own one, stop by your local library or bookstore to pick up some books on tape. As you listen to them, take careful note of how narrators bring the stories to life.

Challenge yourself

  • Try writing a nonfiction story with a standard plot line. Standard plot lines usually consist of an introduction, rising action, the climax or turning point, falling action, and a resolution. Books are available on this topic if you need help.
  • Try to write a poem that encapsulates how you felt when you did something on your own for the first time.
  • Think about a funny experience you've had and practice telling it out loud in front of a mirror in the most dramatic and amusing way possible. Once you're comfortable, try it out on your friends or family.

Logical/Mathematical Intelligence

You scored a 5 out of 10 on Logical/Mathematical Intelligence. This means that you scored above 50% of the others who took this test.

What is logical/mathematical intelligence?

People with a high level of logical/mathematical intelligence are generally great problem solvers who are able to both think critically and analyze data. Individuals who have this intelligence also tend to see the world as a logical place. This is probably true because they're usually so skilled at picking up the patterns all around them. Whether it's a scientist noticing a repeated behavior in one of her subjects or a mathematician using patterns of numbers to solve a theorem, this type of intelligence can be extremely handy in intellectual pursuits.

However, there are also plenty of everyday uses for logical/mathematical intelligence. For example, whether you're reading the financial pages or the sports section, the newspaper is typically filled with data and statistics for you to interpret. Indeed, it's hard to grasp the complexities of important scientific, social, economic, or political issues if you can't understand the information given. Life is also filled with plenty of opportunities to use applied math. Balancing your checkbook, bargain shopping, and even gambling demand some level of logical/mathematical intelligence. When it comes to money, people who are logically/mathematically intelligent typically have the benefit of being better able to manage their own finances. They also have a leg up on understanding the factors that affect their investments.

As learners, people who are strong in this type of intelligence comprehend things most effectively through trial and error rather than through verbal instruction or visual diagrams. In particular, if given a problem to solve, logical/mathematical people will usually prefer to test out solutions themselves rather than to be told or shown what the right answer is. Moreover, people who use this intelligence can be stronger than most other people are at weighing the merits of different arguments. By looking at facts critically, these individuals are good at forming their own conclusions — an ability that can make them great business leaders and first-rate independent thinkers.

Take Action

Your above-average score indicates that you already use this intelligence effectively in your life. As a result, Tickle has provided you with some ways to improve your intelligence so that you reach the top of your ability. The following action steps will help you to increase your familiarity and adeptness with numbers and scientific concepts. They'll do this by helping you focus on topics that probably aren't typically part of your life, as well as by working math into your daily routine.

Start small

  • Buy or borrow a high school math textbook — anything from algebra to geometry or trigonometry — and reacquaint yourself with concepts that you might not have fully understood the first time around.
  • If you're not already a regular viewer, try to spend a couple hours a week watching scientific programming on the Discovery Channel, the Learning Channel, or PBS. By watching programs that talk about scientific concepts and explain different discoveries, you can improve your logic and deductive reasoning capabilities.
  • Make it a priority to visit science and technology museums on occasion to better understand the concepts that underpin both scientific advancements and the natural world.

Challenge yourself

  • Read about a mathematical or scientific concept and then teach it to someone else less knowledgeable than you are.
  • Learn a computer programming language such as BASIC, C, or PASCAL. Picking up one of these languages is not only a marketable job skill, but it can also help you hone your logical and pattern recognition abilities.
  • Subscribe to a popular science journal such as Science, Psychology Today, Omni, or Scientific American to keep up with the latest discoveries and research

Physical Intelligence

You scored a 4 out of 10 on Physical Intelligence. This means that you scored above 40% of the others who took this test.

What is physical intelligence?

When most of us think of physical intelligence, we think of dancers and athletes. Indeed, athletic prowess, physical grace, and control of the body for achievement or expression are each important aspects of this kind of intelligence. However, another important facet is the use of fine motor skills such as hand-eye coordination for activities like surgery, carpentry, and painting.

Very few people can accomplish the highest levels of physical intelligence, and those who do — whether sports heroes or heart surgeons — are usually both admired and paid handsomely for it. Yet everyone can benefit enormously from improving our intelligence in this realm. Until recently, physical intelligence was something that had been devalued in our society, mostly as a result of the industrial revolution. Once people developed machines to do tasks like farming and metal work, people's physical abilities in these areas were pushed aside.

Fortunately today, medical research demonstrates the importance of physical activity and maintaining a mind-body connection. It's been found that the more people use their bodies and preserve their physical capabilities, the more their thinking can improve, as well. Physical intelligence isn't just about muscle and athleticism. There are a variety of skills that can be worked on when it comes to improving physical intelligence including strength, endurance, flexibility, balance, dexterity, expressiveness, coordination, and good reflexes (Armstrong, 1999). People who use this type of intelligence frequently come to see their bodies as a source of joy, along with the added bonus of suffering less from stress and certain types of disease.

Take Action

With all the talk in the media about the importance of physical fitness and an active lifestyle, you probably understand the value of some aspects of physical intelligence by now. In fact, based on your score, it's evident that you've put emphasis on this intelligence in your own life already. As a result, Tickle's experts are making the stakes in this area higher by giving you a variety of physical challenges. Because physical intelligence can be easily measured, you'll be able to appreciate your progress as you go.

Start small

  • So long as you don't have any specific physical limitations, try working on your flexibility. One way to test your present level of flexibility is by seeing if, while holding your arms straight, you can make the palms of your hands touch each other behind your back. Practice daily until you can do so. Or for a more in-depth challenge, consider trying out a beginner yoga class at your local gym.
  • Breathing is crucial to health and fitness. Yet did you know that most of us breathe incorrectly? Correct breathing is accomplished by inhaling deeply and expanding your abdomen so that your diaphragm moves downward. This way, air flows into your lungs more effectively. When you breathe out the diaphragm moves upward so that the air is pushed out of the lungs. Try concentrating on your breathing for at least five minutes per day.
  • If you don't already, try to make simple exercises a part of your daily routine. Consider adding a 30-minute speed walk or floor exercise session to your schedule. You'll be amazed by what even these short workouts can accomplish when you stick to them.

Challenge yourself

  • Increase your strength, reflexes, and balance by taking a martial arts or a self-defense course. If there's not one available in your area, try to find yourself a good at home martial arts workout video instead.
  • Go out dancing! Whether in a class or at a club, it can be fun to express yourself physically. Don't worry if you're not great at first; there'll be lots of other beginners. No matter what type of dance you choose (e.g., salsa, ballroom, tap, jazz), it can increase your grace and coordination.
  • Get a complete fitness evaluation by a personal trainer. Once you've discussed your goals and determined your fitness level, you can develop a regimen that increases particular strengths or works on weaknesses.

Social Intelligence

You scored a 3 out of 10 on Social Intelligence. This means that you scored above 30% of the others who took this test.

What is social intelligence?

Social intelligence refers to the ability to read other people and understand their intentions and motivations. People with this intelligence are usually clued in to the differences between what others say and what they really mean. As a result, socially intelligent types may sometimes be accused of being mind readers. People who successfully use this type of intelligence can be masterful conversationalists. This can be due to a combination of excellent listening skills and the ability to meaningfully engage others. People who are socially intelligent can usually make the people around them feel comfortable and included. They also tend to enjoy interacting with a variety of people.

Other valuable skills that can come along with social intelligence are the ability to assert one's own needs, effective conflict resolution skills, and the gift of being able to solve most problems in a cooperative fashion. By being able to key in on others' needs — sometimes more clearly than those people can themselves — socially intelligent individuals can be highly perceptive. This trait can be a great boon in business as well as in personal matters.

Because they often feed off their relationships with others, if social types find themselves without a romantic partner, close family, or a circle of friends to share their life with, monetary and academic successes can lose their luster. When it comes to understanding the mindset of many socially intelligent people, Ralph Waldo Emerson may have said it best:

"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better; whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success."

There's evidence that working to optimize social intelligence can even be beneficial to your health. It's been shown that lonely individuals are highly susceptible to depression and a variety of other mental and physical ailments. So by developing a close social network and learning to be emotionally available and depend on others, you can be not just happier but healthier, too.

Take Action

Although you appear to have a solid grasp on your people skills, the following activities can help you hone them even further. Because you've probably noticed that social intelligence is something that can produce dramatic results, Tickle's team has provided a variety of both basic and challenging ways you can kick your social intelligence up a notch.

Start small

  • The next time you're at an airport or in the lobby of a building, take some time to people watch. In studying people's behaviors you can improve your "people perception." As you notice people relating, ask yourself the following questions:

    (a) What is the relationship between the people speaking to one another?

(b) What emotions are people experiencing?

(c) What sorts of nonverbal gestures are being displayed, and what do these gestures mean?

By coming to understand others movements, speech, and expressions, you can really become a great reader of people's moods and intentions.

  • Smile more often. People are much more apt to respond warmly to you when they think they will be received well.
  • Generate positivity. Avoid chances to criticize, complain, or judge others harshly. Remember the adage, "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say it at all?" It's one that's put to good use by people with high social intelligence.

Challenge yourself

  • Try to become aware of the signals that your behavior and body language convey to others. For example, if your coworkers frequently ask you if something is wrong or why you're upset, it's a cue that you need to take a closer look at yourself. Do you walk around the office with a long face or a constantly slouched posture? If so, you may be communicating that you're unhappy or something is wrong even if you don't intend to do so.
  • Although it's an easy thing to do, resist the urge to talk about yourself. Generally, sharing your thoughts and feelings can be a good thing. However, it's important to make an effort to expand conversations to more general topics and to ask polite questions about others. That way the people you're speaking with won't feel excluded or unimportant. This focus also helps you avoid disclosing too much personal information. No one is saying that you need to be close-mouthed or secretive. Just remember that when it comes to talking about your private life, sometimes less is more.
  • Learn how to disagree gracefully. Having a different point of view from others isn't a problem unless you make it so. If you find yourself repeating your points or trying to persuade someone with no success, know when to quit and agree to disagree. If the point or disagreement is an important one, seek to truly understand the other person so you can find common ground. When you're able to compromise, both of you can be satisfied.

Famous uses of intelligence

We can all use a little inspiration. Check out how these visionaries put their different types of intelligence to work. The list below is a perfect example of how important each type of intelligence really is. If everyone were simply book-smart, where would we all be today?

Visual/Spatial
Dale Chihuly: Glassblower and artistMaya Lin: Architect of the Civil Rights and Vietnam Veteran's Memorials
Charles and Ray Eames: Furniture designers

Personal
Dalai Lama: Tibetan spiritual leader
Deepak Chopra: Spiritual guru
Oprah Winfrey: Talk show host

Linguistic
Amy Tan: Writer
Pablo Neruda: Poet
Tony Kushner: Playwright

Logical/Mathematical
Erno Rubik: Inventor of the Rubik's Cube
John Nash: Mathematician
Suze Orman: Financial advisor

Physical
Twyla Tharp: Choreographer and dancer
Lance Armstrong: Bike racer
Dr. Christiaan Barnard: Surgeon of first heart transplant

Social
Dr. Phil McGraw: Author and therapist
Dr. John Gottman: Researcher and marriage counselor
Barbara Walters: Journalist and talk show host

History Behind the Test

Fortunately, the field of assessing intelligence has come a long way from measuring the size of our skulls. However, even 50 years ago, traditional beliefs about intelligence indicated that people's capacity for learning was fixed. In other words, the prevailing view was that you're either born smart or you're not. Furthermore, measuring intelligence was almost completely limited to how well you performed on logic and math tests.

But fast-forward to the early 1980s, and you would have found Dr. Howard Gardner advocating a new way of looking at intelligence. His influential theory of multiple intelligences helped educational psychologists and others to broaden their thinking about what it means to be smart. According to Gardner, thinking about intelligence needed to acknowledge more than one form of intelligence. To describe the many dimensions Gardner felt made up intelligence, he coined the term multiple intelligences. His theory centers on the idea that intelligence is made up of at least seven to nine distinct abilities. It also postulates that all human beings possess a number of types of intelligence in varying amounts. What's more is that Gardner believed people's intelligence could be improved.

To help you put Gardner's theory in action, Tickle created the Multiple Intelligences test. While Gardner looked at up to nine different areas of intelligence, Tickle's test focuses on what we feel to be the core six: linguistic, visual/spatial, logical/mathematical, physical (or as Gardner called it, "body"), social (Gardner termed it "interpersonal"), and personal (Gardner used the term "intrapersonal").

We hope this test helps you understand that you no longer need to be judged by strict and narrow standards of what it means to be smart. Instead, you can start to appreciate the many ways that you and others are intelligent. If you'd like to learn more about this topic, Tickle's research team suggests the references below for future reading.

What Kind Of Seducer Are You?(From Shanz)




Your Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover



You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!

Not because you posess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.

You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.



You inspire each person to be an idealist and passionate, and you make each moment memorable

Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life

By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.



Your abilities to make dreams come true is so strong, that you are often the love of many people's lives.

Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.

No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover.

Tuesday, December 13, 2005

Baby Names I Got From the Net

Djeanna I got something in my head...it is quite persistent and i guess maybe it's just the jitterbuggy of expecting a newborn any moment that's got my nerves all racked up... I tried surfing the net and then i've found something that attracted my inquisitiveness...Aha!baby names...i haven't had any idea what to name on this next baby...at first i thought t'was a boy since my ob-gyne told me she had this huge gut feeling that it was...i got all excited since i already have two very pretty angels and i'm certain that i'm gonna need another one cherubim to add up,yet i wish for a boy though...so i collected names, funny names, weird names boy's name anything that would likely be my future baby's name, i have had a few boy's name in here (since i'm expecting a boy and everyone's been telling me t'is was a boy): Savion, Bryce, Caden, Sefhu or Sefuja(Male Egyptian version of Sophia - Egyptian female's Safiya), Marcus, Landonn, Tanner, Aegeon, Launce, Tybalt, Rashae, Ourson, Garreth, Farris, Herlebeorth (England's version), Sammon, Leodegraunce... and so on...But it turned out to be a girl! I was surfing the net once more since i haven't thought of a girl's name...i mean, another girl's name!So i'm all starting again...Brygid, Alessandese, Karleisha, Nychelle, Audrielle, Blythe, Samia / Samirah, Solveigh, Herzeloyde, Hubertha (bright mind), Sophronie...and that's it for now...i know these names might sound so unpretty...to me there's more on these names that amazes me than that of whom might be disinterested of...

Anyway, i guess i will be needing some comments on this and also i do need some suggestions, too...and i'm looking forward on reading other suggestions...thank's!

Sunday, November 27, 2005

"Why Do I Always End Up Like This?"


Sometimes, i don't understand why people tend to believe those lying jerks than me who's been telling 'em what's really true?Sometimes i just got sick and tired of it all that i wanted to scream on the top og my lungs just to get it all out...what's in my head!i can't do that, though so i felt like exploding or all crunched up i could hardly breathe.Damn!i'ts always, always like this!I always end up shamed, stupified, mullified, shutted up, even if i know i reacted the way one must react in situations that drowns out your heart and asphyxiate yopur brain of proper reasoning and modest,less candid expresing.Well, everybody's been doing that...yet, nobody tends to notice or even give a damn, what i don't understandis that, why is it that if it's me that's doin' the act,i'm the one wrong, i'm the villain, ihurt other people's feeling and all that?i really don't get it why after holding on to my patience and clamming up my assertions and then bottling up my feelings, i still didn't get the right to react?it seems like crazying...why do other people only care for their feelings yet they never noticed that they are trampling other persons life to death...that they are driving other persons life to hell, to the looney bin and they don't even anna admit it that they do?i dunno if they noticed it or they're just plainly numb and cold and are intentionally ignoring it?I'm so tired and hurt and drained and still fighting the losing battle even if should have long given up just because of that STUPID HOPE that i'm holding my sanity into.I just hate myself so much that i let other people to made me feel this way,DAMN PATIENCE, to hell with my 'MORONIC MARTYRNESS'. i just hate myself so much because i really wanted to fight for myself, for my kids, and i do wanted to fight for everything that i have sacrificed, for everything that i have given up and for everything that i have lost along the way BUT i couldn't and i don't understand why?i hate myself because i always, always think of what others would feel before myself to the extent of hurting myself, more than what i have expected that would...i hate myself because i always have this attitude of saving other people's ass, and rinsking myself in exchange to their damn safety...Oh damn i don't like it that i've always, always loved others before myself...i'm making a piece shit out of me!maybe everybody's right, i'm ruining my own life just for the happiness and convenience of other person...i'm so exhausted of this, i'm always the one who's catching whoever was to fall...and when i'm the one breaking down into mangled pieces...no one's there for me at all, nobody's ever there to back me up... Knife_holderi don't understand why do i always have to give all that i have, to share all that i can without asking for something in return...why do i have to always love other person with all my heart, be it anybody and yet it seems as though nobody seem to love me, not even seem to notice me nor care at all...i don't like it that i seemed to have adapted the role of a lightbulb, a food or a vehicle that they would only turn to when they need me to fix this, do that favor or be anything handy for them...i do feel like a freakin' doormat, for chrissake!

About you, i have always loved you unconditionally, i have always given you all that i have, i have always followed what your craziest whim would be,i don't understand why you have to always make me feel this way.it's always like this, i don't even know why i'm so pretty damn hurt when i know it won't do me any good.i don't even wanna give up on US, i don't even wanna let you go, how many times that i have gathered my withering guts to fight for you, not just for myself, for my love and for my heart, and for US but for our kids that doesn't seem to bother you at all.yet sometimes i get to thinking that maybe i should or i'd better force myself not to believe in hope anymore even if everybody's been telling me to hold on.For what?it's so damn obvious, you don't love me anymore since you always, always have this habit of making me as your scapegoat...that evething is my fault... that i have fuckin' changed, that you don't love me anymore and you only love the kids...for pete's sake why do i always have to know that on other people and yet when i asked you about that you would tell me that it wasn't true at all...that you damn love me, then why do you have to tell it to everybody for all te world to know if it wasn't true at all?because you pity me?because you feel guilty?because you're happy seeing me hurt?because i makes you glad everytime you laugh at me whenever you see me crying because you've hurted me?i can't even rationalize it nor understand it nor ever figure out what you're driving at?i don't get your point...you are not giving me any change to move on and fix my life either...sometimes i don't even know who to believe and what to believe anymore...I don't even know who you are convincing, me or yourself? I hate myself for always hoping, for always having faith on your words when you have told me that you love me even if i already knew you don't because you are muchly confusing me.sometimes, i would notice you, your daily habit, your reactions and everything in you...sometimes i would sneak and then caught you without you knowing that...and i feel loved because what i have seen haven't got any trace of pretentions in it...and that made me believe that you do love me...but why do you have to hide it from me?why do you have to express it in a manner that i might not know(you thought i would never know)but for what reason? and then when i awake the next day, you seemed to have returned into your own numb, cold self...i can't even find a proper explanation why you have to unmask your real self only to me that i ended up looking like a liar because you have the sheep's mask worn all over your whole self when it comes to other people, to other girls to be exact, that they find you so darn nice...just the same as how i have found you before and i have fallen into that hoax...a perfect and cunning trap...i have been clean and i've got it all as everybody's been saying...that nothing compares to me,that i exceeded 'em all then why do i get to be treated like a trash?like a whore when you know that it only you and no one else ever since?like a cheap and uneducated person?like a no-brainer when you know that i'm never like that, not in a million years?then you would tell me i have changed?somehow wouldn't you wanna ask yourself why i have changed?i admit i have...but you drove me into that...i've been faithful and devoted and a spoiler to you yet what did i get,you treating me low,you womanizing and shaming me in public, youhurting me physically and emotionally, you driving me crazy,pushing me up to the wall and feeling happy doing it? You know what?i hate myself so much because i still love you, because my whole world revolves around you still and no matter how i tried to escape this life i can't because i worry a lot on who's gonna love you the way i do, who's gonna give up everything just for you?on who's gonna catch you when you fall, who's gonna be patient enough to endure everything...the hidden, the unmasked side of yours, the flaws and all after i'm gone? i have loathed myself because i don't understand why do i kept dreaming of something that might or really would never happen?why do i have so much faith, why do i keep tons of hope in being next to you till we grow old and to stay with you till i die?that's stupid but it would be hypocrisy if won't admit it...i always hurt me even more thinking about it. it only made me feel more frustrated, defeated and only let my tears fell bitterly night and day out of nothing good from you..all wasted up!Pic19

i have been writing letter for you just the way we were before...some small notes and some long messages that i would never send nor intend to give you.Everything,all neatly stacked up and hidden on the drawer of our closet, all left untouched, unsent and unread. i didn't have all the guts to give it to you.i have even bought a card that i would never send for you might hate me even more. You might just ignore it,would only laught at it, would just have to show it to your friends for some kicks and laughter, you would only made fun at it telling everybody how stupid i m to love you that much? it would only mean nothing to you and would only hurt me so much seeing your reaction laughing to my face as you always do...

i don't even wanna insist myself on you, i might even be or would only be rejected by you as you usually do(it seems as though you project it that im the one who wanted you right from the start when the fact is that it's you who's done everthing posible to gain me)i don't like it,i hurt so much yet i can't do anything about it... the pain is gradually killing me, makin' me suffer even more...i hate the feeling but i still endured all this because i still feel all the happiness from just your slightest hint of affection to me..i bear all the pain, bartered everything to take all the chances i could have only to love you even if for you i don't even exist, even if i'm just nothing, even if it's not good for me, for my kids and for the unborn child inside me...i went gaga clinging on the sheerest hope i could find, to see your old self, te one i fell in love with.. the one who lured me and betrayed me and trapped me into falling inlove for him with with that untrue kindness...i would always, always wanna get back to where we started..and would always wanna pick it up to where we have left before our togetherness went astray...you were so nice and so loving then,before November 10,2000 when you have changed and started morphing into some monster whom i don't know could have ever existed.i am willing to change into my old self again, if you'd only treat me as how you have treated me before...yet...i know wishing things that would never happen is too much!

-peaches (waiting, hurting so much and almost giving up mood)

started:12:30am - 2:30am 28th, nov.2005 (icafe-alone)

Monday, October 24, 2005

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Thursday, October 13, 2005

Aaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggghhh! Part 2

My Reaction About Yesterday and the Night Before...(Plus some weeks before...)

I get so damn freakish right now i just don't want any scene but really i am so fuckin' pissed off...Why do i have to be so stickin' passive with this godamn jerk doin' some what-the-fuck he's always been doin' right under my nose and get so freakin' mad about it yet can't fuckin' do anything to it!I HATE HIM SO DARN MUCH, I HATE HIM! DAMN RIGHT IT'S TRUE!Sometimes i don't feel like i love him anymore and sometimes i just freakin' loathe that bastard so much!It gets way too under my skin and i don't pretty much want this maddening feeling inside me...It makes me think a load of damn evil things on my head and it stretched my brain so much i'm always on the verge of being so overly stressed out, exasperated and so very much going down into the drain... AMPH!WTF!Everything sucks so much i don't ever like it...How would you react when you arrived dead-tired from work and overtime at around 12am and found your daughter suick, her father on a damn drinkin' spree or so he say(?) and then you have to take care of your child, do some encoding, make their assignments and sleep at almost 3am only to be awaken of your drunk so-called-husband at 5am...How would you friggin' react when instead of tending to his daughter who's into pits of vomiting, was overly sweaty, can hardly breathe and on the verge of passing out and was just left on the floor by her no-good, worthless father who instead of rubbing his daughter's back was so into texting his latest 'fuckie'. Who when you asked for him to go and find a decent nebulizer to whisk away his daughter's asthma and save us from much burden while you carried his 3 yrs old daughter up and down the hall while you are 6 months pregnant has gone out to run a fuckin' errand for his gurl or just went there to unload his itchies...Damn, i hate that man...i could use up a little smashing of his mobile phone for that!I'm on my way to activate my killer instinct when i handed him the money to buy nebules and waited for God-knows-how-long for him to be back...hey, if i were you won't you be too? Shucks, i'm getting way too ogrish and dangerous by the minute...I'm so angered i feel so much hatred inside me...im annoyed, i'm pissed off!Damn!I don't care whom he screwed the brains out for a few months now 'cause i'm so glad t'wasn't me anymore..(boy,talkin' 'bout gettin' the risk of catching infection again-NO,thank's!),i don't care either as to whether he doesn't take care of my kids nor bothered wonderin' how i managed to work at the office and go home at around 10pm - 12am alone, commuting, and i'm so very much pregnant, i don't care either that he's 100% useless here in the house and was opting payment for his family members who would wanna hitch on his van while he do a free service for his stupid and worthless friends and hoes, i don't care either whether he went home or not every night as he doesn't wanna be messed or nagged or be bitched at that's why he ain't heard nothin' to me at all(not even a word of complain)!But for chrissake, when it comes to his kids, where on earth was his brains (who usually get lodged on his lovegun) as not to think of his babies first before his itch or his friends or his gimmicks or his fun...Damn, these kids are his blood for crying out loud!!!He'd exchange it for something else?FUCK!And then, he's got the nerve to tell everyone that he's gonna marry me just so because i got a job now which means i could do a living and provide for him?Damn him!he even had the guts to tell everyone that we're separated because we are exactly opposites and we didn't get along quite well?Screw him!I've had my fair or should i say my lion's share of hell putting up with him these past 6 years if i don't love him...not just because he's the father of these kids...That's what blows my temper off always...and i ended up nagging at him thru texts...he can anything he wanted, whatever he wanted but when it comes to our kids...Bhobet_and_his_newest_fuckie_1

I'll surely raise hell on him and i will soon definitely raise hell on that bitch on their place or gladly on their school, if they're so STONECOLD NUMB enough not to think of it!And about that girl, how could she live and sleep knowing that she's into competence with his kids,for chrissake?!?Tell you what, i do love that self-centered, pretentious, brat YES...(because i'ma gonna be a hypocrite if i didn't say so!)but that doesn't mean i'ma marry him anymore,NO WAY JOSE!I do know that he won't change anymore even if that's what his press releases was all about!Oh, enough of this crap! i've just unloaded my hatred and cleared my head for i'ma build a hundred site today...Thank's to this blog...this is my way of shouting...

Thursday, September 08, 2005

Aaaarrrrrrrrrrggghh!!!!!!!

i get so damn freakish right now i just don't want any scene but really i am so fuckin' pissed off...Why do i have to be so stickin' passive with this godamn jerk doin' some what-the-fuck he's always been doin' right under my nose and get so freakin' mad about it yet can't fuckin' do anything to it!I HATE HIM SO DARN MUCH, I HATE HIM!DAMN RIGHT IT'S TRUE!Sometimes i don't feel like i love him anymore and sometimes i just freakin' loathe that bastard so much!It gets way too under my skin and i don't pretty much want this maddening feeling inside me...It makes me think a load of damn evil things on my head and it stretched my brain so much i'm always on the verge of being so overly stressed out, exasperated and so very much going down into the drain... AMPH!WTF!Everything sucks so much i don't ever like it...Shucks,i'm getting way too ogrish and dangerous by the minute...I'm so angered i feel so much hatred inside me...im annoyed, i'm pissed off!Damn!Thank's to this blog...this is my way of shouting...